Complacent stupidity.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Their inability to deal with my disorganisation.
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Lack of understanding and tolerance.
Arrogance and a lack of respect for others.
Looking down at other people. I was brought up to treat people as you treat yourself, with respect. The people you meet on the way up are the people you meet on the way down.
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When I was 17 I launched into a rant at my dad about what I thought of him. We never spoke about it again and then he passed away. I would love to say sorry to him.
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My complete lack of organisation that affects all part of my life – my living space, my being in touch with people, everything. I am a walking shitshow.
The arcade game, Guitar Hero. I’ve got the full unit in my house. It’s so sad.
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