Love is understanding, authenticity and being able to be exactly who you are with no editing – and it’s a gift.
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Something that you can’t describe or put in a box. It changes daily and surprises you when you least expect.
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Strength, comfort, joy and passion.
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Right now, like I have no intention of going anywhere else.
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