Ingratitude. Taking advantage of others.
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False humility.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, December 2013 source ↗
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View all 196 →Disrespect. My dad was a toolmaker and worked in a factory all his life, and he felt looked down on, and it really affected him. And so all my life I’ve loathed disrespect and valued respect.
Elmore Leonard
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Guys who use the word “snot.”
People-pleasing.
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Anyone who can laugh at themselves.
At the altar all seven times.
Being there through thin and thin. That’s friendship treasured.
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