What is the worst thing anyone has said to you?

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Recorded Meghann Fahy said elsewhere, not written here
I had a casting director once stop me in the middle of an audition and tell me to go wash my face in the bathroom because she felt my makeup was too distracting, but I wasn’t wearing any. It was mortifying. It felt like a power play and I was so young, I didn’t know what to do.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 April 2026 source ↗

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Melanie Blatt English singer
“Your career will be over if you have the baby.”To whom would you most like to say sorry, and why? My parents, for my teenage years. I tried to run away when I was 15. We lived in a fishing village in France and, with my boyfriend, I headed to Spain to sell arts and crafts on the beach. Mum came and took me home.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 July 2023 source ↗
Maggie O'Farrell Irish-British novelist
“You’ll never walk again.” This was when I was eight or nine and recovering from viral encephalitis.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 March 2023 source ↗

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