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What disappointment has stayed with you longest?

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George H. W. Bush 41st President of the United States, 1989–1993
When I lost a race for the United States Senate, I thought the world was going to end for me politically, and 18 years later I was elected President of the United States. The biggest disappointment was that I wasn't able to communicate properly to the American people — with the proper conviction and the proper ability — where the country really stood. The pessimists, the naysayers, the change-wanters overwhelmed me, and I wasn't good enough. I wasn't articulate enough to have the country understand that we weren't in a recession, that we were in a rather booming economy in the last half of my presidency. That was a personal shortcoming, a failure on my path.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, Williamsburg, Virginia, 2 June 1995 source ↗
Jimmy Savile English media personality and sex offender
Never having been a 100% sex symbol. I only managed 99.9%.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 26 May 2007 source ↗
Ed Harris American actor and director
The distribution of Copying Beethoven in the US.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 August 2007 source ↗
David Schwimmer American actor
The lack of role models in leadership in the US, in particular our government.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 8 September 2007 source ↗
Pamela Anderson Canadian-American actress and model
That after I collected countless signatures on a petition, the Queen's Guard still wear bearskin hats.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 19 January 2008 source ↗
Boy George British musician
Getting arrested in New York and discovering how lacking in morality US law enforcers are. Being handcuffed to a metal trolley in Bellevue Hospital because I cut my foot while being dragged from a police car, and listening to nurses chatting about hair products as I screamed for something to stop me hallucinating.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 9 February 2008 source ↗
Camille Paglia American feminist academic and critic
The shocking decline of artistic quality in Hollywood movies over the past 15 years.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 5 April 2008 source ↗
Ranulph Fiennes English explorer
An angina attack 300 metres below the summit ridge of Everest in 2005, having spent 72 days getting that far.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 31 May 2008 source ↗
Ed Balls British broadcaster and politician
That my competitive pole vault career ended at the age of 15.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 1 November 2008 source ↗
Philip Glass American composer
I don't know. I was lucky; I was able to study with the people I wanted to, be friends with the people I wanted to and in the end I've been able to make a living the way I wanted to.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2008 source ↗
Richard Hammond English journalist, television presenter, and author
Failing my driving test first time; that was a disappointment on a geological scale.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 January 2009 source ↗

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Not being able to start my own company

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