Humor. Laughing with my girlfriends is one of my great joys.
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A fixed Vanity Fair Proust Questionnaire item asked across its three-decade archive, with independent variants in friendship and profile interviews.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
That they’re kind, trustworthy, smart, and can hear and communicate and aren’t afraid to do so.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 1 August 2013 source ↗
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Their willingness to put up with my endless explanations about why I can’t see them because I’m under deadline.
Forbearance with my chronic tardiness.
Their humor and that they are smarter than I, but not by too much.
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View profile →Probably when our children were small, which is not to say I am unhappy now.
Watching seeds grow in the greenhouse. Drawing or reading or cooking.
I admire the mother of my children a great deal, because she’s interesting, smart and funny.
I don’t think so! You can’t really know that until the moment of your death, at which point you will probably not be afraid because you won’t be there. I have a very old friend who called me last year to say, “Okay I am done. I am not fighting this anymore. I am checking out. I am calling to say goodbye because I am not really conscious most of the time. I am cutting off the pain killers.” He seemed okay. That was not the moment of his death, but it was within two or three days.
When I was an idiot high school student, as opposed to being an idiot adult, I used to drive very fast.
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