James Norton
English actor
Greta Thunberg, for obvious reasons.
Which living person do you most admire, and why?
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How close have you come to death?
Death & what remains
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When were you happiest?
Time & hindsight
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What is your idea of perfect happiness?
Identity & self
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What do you value most in your friends?
Relationships
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Are you afraid of death?
Death & what remains
Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's Q&A repeatedly uses this prompt, sometimes dropping 'living' while retaining the same comparative judgment.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
I admire the mother of my children a great deal, because she’s interesting, smart and funny.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 10 March 2018 source ↗
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My mother, because she raised all of us. I do have a dad, but in those days dads never helped with the kids.
Joely Richardson
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The elderly, because it takes courage to get through the day when there isn’t some glorious future ahead.
Chlöe Swarbrick who is co-leader of the New Zealand Greens. She’s demonstrating the bold leadership that I look to do every single day.
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Probably when our children were small, which is not to say I am unhappy now.
Watching seeds grow in the greenhouse. Drawing or reading or cooking.
That they’re kind, trustworthy, smart, and can hear and communicate and aren’t afraid to do so.
I don’t think so! You can’t really know that until the moment of your death, at which point you will probably not be afraid because you won’t be there. I have a very old friend who called me last year to say, “Okay I am done. I am not fighting this anymore. I am checking out. I am calling to say goodbye because I am not really conscious most of the time. I am cutting off the pain killers.” He seemed okay. That was not the moment of his death, but it was within two or three days.
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