Judy Blume
Novelist
I love that my true friends don’t think of me as that Judy, but as the Judy they’ve known for years, a woman, like them. And I love their senses of humor.
What do you value most in your friends?
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What is the trait you most deplore in others?
Values & belief
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When were you happiest?
Time & hindsight
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Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?
Identity & self
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Which living person do you most admire, and why?
Values & belief
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What is your idea of perfect happiness?
Identity & self
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What is your greatest fear?
Identity & self
Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
A fixed Vanity Fair Proust Questionnaire item asked across its three-decade archive, with independent variants in friendship and profile interviews.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
They take my calls.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 24 April 2017 source ↗
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A love of laughter and a shared belief that life is a dream.
Their responsibility to the friendship.
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View profile →Their goddamned fucking honesty.
St. Michael’s Hospital, Toronto: 8:31 A.M., July 1, 1981; 8:29 A.M., May 4, 1983.
Standing up while eating.
The sewing-machine repairman at the corner of 107th and Broadway.
Listening to my sons play a piano-and-sax duet.
That I’ll die worrying.
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