Every time one of my kids was born and I knew that they were healthy.
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The births of my children, Harley Moon (28) and Roman (25).
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I was a happy kid. I had quite a small life: I grew up in Walthamstow and didn’t really leave east London. I didn’t go to the South Bank for the first time until I was 18 years old.
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I couldn't answer that. There are so many amazing things – falling in love, winning an Oscar, moving my mom out to America and just having a simple dinner with great friends.
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When my first child was born – something I thought would never happen.
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