Can't pick and choose, it's bad luck.
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Asked in 52 of the 131 consecutive instalments of The Guardian's The Q&A harvested on 2026-08-29.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 September 2018 source ↗
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My wedding day, and when my children were first placed in my arms.
Whenever I’m with my wife and I’m not preoccupied with work.
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I would very, very much like to say sorry to my mother, for all the times I told her I hadn’t got the time to talk.
To lose my fourth baby.
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