Lack of confidence in speaking to the opposite sex.
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Which living person do you most admire, and why?
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Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Minding not being liked.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 May 2023 source ↗
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Michael Flatley
American step dancer
I don’t give myself that much thought.
That I don’t give myself enough credit.
I dislike my impatience.
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View profile →I’ve always been frightened of the dark. I sometimes wonder whether it stems from being away filming from the age of five. I can remember being devastatingly homesick and having a little nightlight I used to look at to reassure myself things were all right.
Not to take anything for granted.
If my children remember me as fondly as I remember my mum, that would be a treat.
The early family skiing holidays – before I’d broken an ankle and Gerald had torn a ligament – were just wonderful.
Doing an episode of Doctors was a bit of a nadir.
The amazing women standing up against the Taliban.
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