Rita Moreno
Actor, singer and dancer
The thought that I might die with unresolved conflicts.
What is your greatest fear?
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Which moment embarrassed you most?
Failure & regret
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When were you happiest?
Time & hindsight
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What is the most important lesson life has taught you?
Time & hindsight
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What keeps you awake at night?
Daily life
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What is the trait you most deplore in others?
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What is the worst job you have done?
Craft & work
Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
The exact prompt is fixed in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire and independently sustained in The Guardian's The Q&A over multiple decades.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Outliving my kids – and rats.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 March 2023 source ↗
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Helena Bonham Carter
Actor
The loss of anything, be it a loved one or a faculty—my sight, hearing, or mind.
I can’t say it.
Figuratively doing nothing.
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View profile →Going to pieces while meeting John Squire, the lead guitarist of the Stone Roses, backstage after a gig. I completely lost the ability to speak. I told him I had the same guitars as he’d just used on stage, and when he asked me which ones, the words completely went out of my head and there was a huge pause, and then his wife tapped his shoulder and he wandered off.
After the birth of both my children, although Manchester United winning the treble in 1999 came pretty close.
Live in the moment. Enjoy life because time cruelly speeds up as you get older and becomes scarily finite.
A couple of years ago we moved to East Sussex – I had been living in London for 35 years – and couldn’t work out why I kept waking up and thinking, what’s that sound? It was actually silence.
Arrogance, bullying, meanness – just try to be kind, it’s not difficult.
Working in a very busy bar in the West End when I was trying to pay my way through drama school. I had to dance in a cage in a vest and cycling shorts to Venus by Bananarama, Greased Lightnin’ and Y.M.C.A. every night. It was excruciating.
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