Any misfortune involving our kids. Also, I have recurring nightmares that involve being chased by people or being attacked by scary animals.
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Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
The exact prompt is fixed in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire and independently sustained in The Guardian's The Q&A over multiple decades.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Heights. For Children in Need, I had to abseil off the Orbit in the Olympic Park. It was the most terrifying thing I’ve done.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 22 October 2022 source ↗
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