What is the worst thing anyone has said to you?

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Recorded Rose Ayling-Ellis said elsewhere, not written here
“I’ll tell you later.” They never do.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 24 August 2024 source ↗

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It happened when I was younger, somewhere outside London. We were on bikes, and this older girl pulled up and said something racist that I won’t repeat. I will never forget that, because it was the first time, and I was like, “Oh, I am feeling different from everyone around me right now”.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 16 December 2023 source ↗
Melanie Blatt English singer
“Your career will be over if you have the baby.”To whom would you most like to say sorry, and why? My parents, for my teenage years. I tried to run away when I was 15. We lived in a fishing village in France and, with my boyfriend, I headed to Spain to sell arts and crafts on the beach. Mum came and took me home.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 July 2023 source ↗
Julian Lloyd Webber British cellist and conductor
When the surgeon told me I wouldn’t be able to play the cello again, in 2013. I have a herniated disc and it’s pressing on a nerve in my neck. I announced I was stopping playing in 2014. I absolutely did not want to stop.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 July 2023 source ↗
I’ll never amount to anything. Who? He was my rival at dance school. It hurt and is something that I’ve always had in the back of my head to defy.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 March 2026 source ↗

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