Billy Porter
American actor and singer
The rejection that I have received from my own people.
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When I realised I wasn’t going to make it as a singer-songwriter when I was about 25.
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Harry Redknapp
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That my mum and dad didn’t move to live by the sea, where we live, before they died.
Joseph Fiennes
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I haven't seen a ghost yet.
Kiefer Sutherland
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Some of my choices were mistakes, so I’d have to say myself.
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Doing the bins while working for McDonald’s in west Ealing.
Any song by Donny Hathaway.
A family holiday – anywhere the kids demand. Last year, I wanted us all to go to Egypt and my daughter said, “No, we’re going to go to Grenada.” So we did.
When my mother was alive. She passed away 14 years ago.
As someone who cared about others.
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