Billy Porter
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The rejection that I have received from my own people.
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Probably missing out on roles I really, really wanted, but I’m a big believer that if it’s for you, you’ll have it. So those clearly weren’t for me.
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Being nominated for an award and not winning – there have been a couple.
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My brother Pete passing on in 2005.
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You’ve got to keep trying because you don’t know what amazing things are round the corner. Also, always be grateful – at one point you wished to be where you are today.
As someone who loved her family and friends, worked hard, got successful and had a lovely time in the process.
I did work in retail while I was getting into presenting and the hours were long and you were always on your feet. It was good vibes, though.
My phone and social media.
That I wouldn’t be successful. Joke’s on them, I guess.
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