Adjoa Andoh
English actress
My dad’s parents in Ghana, for not spending more time with them.
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Aside from a property, what is the most expensive thing you have bought?
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Any writer who thinks I’ve ruined their work in performance.
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My parents, for not pursuing an academic career.
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Downton Abbey fans for ruining Christmas in 2012.
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To a man whose heart I broke at 17.
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