Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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My brother: I never meant to kill your pet frog. I thought I was doing a good deed cleaning the mossy tank with bleach. Can I also say sorry to the frog?

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 30 January 2016 source ↗

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Martin Sheen American actor
My son Ramón was the victim of my wrath at a particular time that still withers me with disgrace.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 18 March 2017 source ↗
To my mother for disappointing her. Mummy wanted me to be a different sort of person from who I am, but one can’t change oneself.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 19 July 2025 source ↗
Fran Healy Scottish musician
If I’m ever out of line, I’m very quick to apologise and try to make amends.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 July 2024 source ↗

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