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An actor. Then I grew out of that and became one by default. Or sort of one: “Not really an actor”, said Michael Billington.
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A barrister or a pop star.
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A travel agent, so I could see the world.
Steve Pemberton
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What I am now, but with a better singing voice.
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View profile →I’ll be at my happiest today, and probably my gloomiest at some point today, too.
Adolescent love feels like exquisite self-indulgence. Long-term love feels like a warm bath that needs a trickle of extra hot water every now and then.
Sorry, I’m British and middle class, so I’ve already apologised to virtually everybody I have ever met.
The next morning. It rarely turns out as bad as I think it’s going to be.
As a charming, helpful, solicitous, generous, loving, carefree and constantly funny companion, lover and father. Some hope of that.
No songs, please. Don’t make a fuss.
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