Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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Recorded Victoria Derbyshire said elsewhere, not written here
I’m good at saying sorry – so no one, because I’ve already said it.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 18 September 2021 source ↗

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Alex Jones American far-right conspiracy theorist
An ex-boyfriend who, looking back, I lost patience with. Now we know more about mental health, I think that was at the root of it; I am sorry I didn’t understand it at the time.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 August 2021 source ↗
I’ve apologised to my son, Thomas, for being absent for quite a lot of his first few years, but, as a working mother and breadwinner, I kind of had to be. I like to think I’ve made up for it.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 16 March 2024 source ↗
James Bay English singer-songwriter and guitarist
My girlfriend. I am away a lot and, as much as she understands, I’d like to say sorry for not being there.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 9 January 2016 source ↗
I did say sorry to my mum, for being the way I was when I was a teenager. You become a parent and go, “Oh my God, this is what they were doing.”
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 31 January 2026 source ↗

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