Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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I know I should be more evolved, but the person I would like to say sorry to I’m not ready to say sorry to yet.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 4 February 2023 source ↗

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John Simpson English journalist
I’d like to say sorry to my mother. I had to choose between my parents, and I chose my father because he didn’t have any other kids. (My mother was a war widow and had two children from her first marriage.) I thought, in a childish way, that one had to be fair. It was very difficult for my mother and me, and we never really got over it.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 December 2016 source ↗
Eddie Izzard British comedian and actress
Nelson Mandela, because I didn’t do enough to stop apartheid. Now I have hopefully made amends.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 May 2016 source ↗
To my mother for disappointing her. Mummy wanted me to be a different sort of person from who I am, but one can’t change oneself.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 19 July 2025 source ↗

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