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My parents, because growing up you think you know more than they do.
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There wasn’t a lot of bullying at my school, but there was a fair amount of ragging – and I knew which side I wanted to be on. I’d say sorry to anyone who felt picked on.
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My parents: I’m sorry I didn’t spend more time with them.
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To anyone I’ve hurt unintentionally.
My first wife, because I left her.
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