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A beautiful, sequined dress for a showbiz function. It was pushing £1,850.
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I bought myself a diamond pinky ring for two million dollars.
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A Burberry mac: I am not a handbag or shoe person, but I do like a nice coat.
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I am a living self-help book – I’ve managed to train myself to never regret anything.
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