Belinda Carlisle
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I wouldn’t take back the drugs, but there are a few boyfriends that I’d edit out of my life.
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Repeated verbatim in The Guardian's long-running Saturday Q&A; two publisher-hosted examples establish recurrence.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Some of those late nights.
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Vicky McClure
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I wasted a year doing nothing at 18. I got with a guy and just wanted to hang out. It didn’t do me any favours.
Tim Rice
English lyricist and author
I would definitely change the way one or two relationships ended.
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Not scrolling on my phone as much as I do.
When my children were small and used to play together, be creative, and were just in that innocent bubble.
That things change.
As a great mother, wife and songwriter.
A gazillion years ago I was in Gucci with Melanie Blatt, and I attempted to sit down on a chair that wasn’t there. I did a full-on stuntwoman backward roll, landed in a ball of the floor and laughed so hard I wet myself. Everybody in the shop moved to a different section.
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