I would care less about what people think.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
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I was a very lazy child, but I think I’ve made up for it by being a workaholic. I might push some of the work back to my childhood.
I wasted a year doing nothing at 18. I got with a guy and just wanted to hang out. It didn’t do me any favours.
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Compare and despair. Comparing yourself with someone else or what someone else is doing or what someone else has is a recipe for sadness. What matters is who you are and what you want.
I’ve learned to accept everything. Part of enjoying life is releasing those disappointments.
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I don’t embarrass easily: I’m kinda shameless.
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