My mum – I've watched her struggle financially, emotionally, mentally even, and she's come through it.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, September 2009 source ↗
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My dad. It's only now that I realise the huge sacrifices that he made to give us a good upbringing.
Sir Alex Ferguson is the most impressive person I’ve met in terms of charisma and achievement.
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View profile →To be wildly, desperately, carelessly, nakedly in love, of course. Crazy, obsessive love: brooding, baying at the moon, writing daily missives to the adored. Who wouldn’t want this? Even though the crash is painful.
The night my daughter was born, New York, December 29, 1997. After she emerged and I held her in the palm of my hand, I walked around Manhattan in a stupor of happiness.
Self-denigration, an old strategy for extorting praise from people. (“I am a terrible person.” “No, you’re a wonderful person and we all love you.”)
That this is all there is, and there is no more.
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