When I turned 30, married and had a place in Brixton. My flailing twenties were over, though the flailing continues.
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View all 581 →Every morning when I go into our three-year-old’s room. He’s so happy to see you, it’s a moment of heaven.
With no shoes on in the African bush with my family.
It's made me a very happy man ever since.
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View profile →I am an ambassador for Rotary, and we are very close to eradicating polio. When I was younger, I lived in Mumbai and, as a kid from England, I was traumatised by seeing children on the street without limbs.
I was rejected by EastEnders, having been called three times. I was heartbroken.
Mathew Varghese, an orthopaedic surgeon who runs India’s only polio ward in Delhi. He provides reconstructive surgery to help survivors walk.
Everyone cutting out social media for one day a week.
Redeeming mortgages. I did it for a few weeks, and it sealed the deal that I wanted a career in entertainment.
My dog, Mr Q, because he has the saddest look when I leave.
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