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Questionnaires

Named FLAPSS instruments — curated sets of questions in our own wording, worked through end to end. Each one has a page showing what it asks and who has answered here. Nothing here is sorted by popularity.

General

The general questionnaire

Twelve questions in FLAPSS wording — taste, daily life, craft, failure, and who formed you. The place to start if you have no idea where to start.

12 questions 499 answers 322 members

Identity & self

An honest inventory

For a birthday, a quiet Sunday, or the week you realise you have been answering other people's priorities. Not a goal worksheet — the questions people answer differently at fifty than at twenty-five.

27 questions 2,190 answers 1,151 members

Reading & recommendations

Reading & recommendations

Five questions about books you pass on, books that changed you, gaps on your list, and long-form work that stayed with you.

5 questions 227 answers 210 members

Craft & work

Craft & work

Six questions about how you work, what your job really is, and the advice your field gets wrong.

6 questions 144 answers 106 members

Daily life

Daily life

Six questions about how your days start, what you refuse, and the small habits you keep.

6 questions 121 answers 89 members

Book authors

For book authors

Twenty questions about the book you wrote and the writer behind it — fifteen about the work, five about you.

20 questions

Death & what remains

Facing mortality

Six questions about regret, last chances, what remains, and how knowing you will die has changed how you live.

6 questions 111 answers 81 members

Failure & regret

Failure & second chances

Seven questions about setbacks, bad advice, embarrassment, apologies, and whether you would edit the past.

7 questions 1,009 answers 691 members

Relationships

Love, friendship & family

Five questions about who formed you, what friends are for, love, parenting, and who you turn to.

5 questions 354 answers 350 members

Identity & self

Who you are

Seven questions about how you describe yourself, what you fear, what you are proud of, and what happiness means to you.

7 questions 1,067 answers 616 members

Values & belief

What you believe

Eight questions about virtues, consensus, what being human means, who you admire, and when you changed your mind.

8 questions 782 answers 630 members

Time & hindsight

Time & hindsight

Seven questions about advice, getting older, what you would put on a billboard, and the happiest moments you remember.

7 questions 866 answers 752 members

Business & enterprise

Founders & CEOs

A practical record of judgment under uncertainty, scaling, people decisions, culture, and responsibility — useful without pretending success has one formula.

12 questions 166 answers 135 members

Teaching & development

Teachers who changed how people learn

Concrete teaching judgment: how understanding, trust, feedback, expectations, and lasting learning actually work.

12 questions 216 answers 165 members

Life experience & transition

Life after work: a retirement review

A long-view record of choices, work, relationships, enough, regret, joy, and what became clear only with time.

12 questions 1,291 answers 886 members

Public & community service

Public leadership & stewardship

Comparable answers about power, disagreement, accountability, institutional stewardship, and measurable public results.

12 questions 196 answers 170 members

Business & enterprise

Small-business owners & operators

Operating knowledge that high-growth founder stories omit: first customers, thin margins, delegation, pricing, and community.

12 questions 210 answers 160 members

Professional practice

Healthcare practice

How listening, uncertainty, error, systems, boundaries, and human contact shape good care.

12 questions 186 answers 152 members

Professional practice

Scientists & researchers

A public account of uncertainty, evidence, negative results, collaboration, explanation, and ethical limits.

12 questions 224 answers 182 members

Professional practice

Engineers & product builders

Trade-offs, failure modes, users, maintenance, simplicity, technical debt, and accountable sign-off.

12 questions 143 answers 118 members

Professional practice

Skilled trades & repair

How trained eyes judge quality, precision, tools, safety, apprenticeship, and repairability.

12 questions 162 answers 127 members

Teaching & development

Coaches & mentors

How potential is seen, standards are held, feedback lands, losses teach, and developmental relationships end.

12 questions 203 answers 163 members

Public & community service

Community & nonprofit organisers

How communities define need, build trust, share power, measure progress, resist burnout, and outlast founders.

12 questions 153 answers 134 members

Life experience & transition

Parents & caregivers

Attention, repair, independence, inherited practices, boundaries, and seeing the person beyond the care need.

12 questions 313 answers 272 members

Life experience & transition

Building a life in a new country

What migration teaches about language, work, belonging, home, recognition, and helping the next arrival.

12 questions 664 answers 484 members

Life experience & transition

Career changers

The push, pull, transferable skill, beginnerhood, hidden cost, identity shift, and evidence that a change was right.

12 questions 574 answers 457 members

Professional practice

Journalists & editors

Questioning, verification, correction, sources, attention, power, and what journalism systematically misses.

12 questions 142 answers 130 members

Professional practice

Artists & performers

Risk, audience, repetition, rejection, livelihood, influence, finishing, and how making changes the maker.

12 questions 234 answers 218 members

Professional practice

Farmers & food producers

Seasonal judgment, stewardship, uncertainty, technology, price, labour, and succession.

12 questions 148 answers 117 members

Public & community service

Emergency & first-response work

Calm, triage, trust, recovery, recurring system failures, and the invisible work between crises.

12 questions 184 answers 150 members

Professional practice

Hospitality & service leaders

Welcome, detail, recovery, team coordination, thin margins, customer limits, and invisible service craft.

12 questions 177 answers 136 members

Business & enterprise

Investors & capital allocators

Thesis, risk, refusal, management judgment, patience, changed facts, and fiduciary responsibility.

12 questions 131 answers 121 members