What did you want to be when you were growing up?

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Recorded Sonia Sotomayor said elsewhere, not written here
My diabetes. You couldn’t go into law enforcement [with that illness]. Now I believe in some police forces you can do that. It wasn’t possible back then. But for a then-8-year-old to have my ambition — my dream — destroyed, broke my heart.

Nora Krug, The Washington Post, 31 August 2018 source ↗

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Joanne Froggatt English actress
An actor – that’s all I’ve ever wanted to do. I went to stage school when I was 13.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 February 2019 source ↗

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