What is the worst thing anyone has said to you?

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There’s a tweet somewhere saying, “If you like Africa so much, why don’t you go back there.” It was because I dedicated one of my dances to my three mothers – Mother Africa, Mother Nature and my mother.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 30 September 2023 source ↗

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Chaka Khan American singer
A friend said, “If you remembered everything you did, you’d kill yourself.” He’s sort of crazy, but he’s probably right.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 May 2024 source ↗
Racial and homophobic slurs – the F- and N-words. When I moved to London, people screamed the F-word from their cars, and that stings.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 December 2024 source ↗
A lady came up to me in Tesco last year and said, “Excuse me, but didn’t you used to be Roger McGough?”
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 10 January 2026 source ↗
Adam Lambert American singer
“You’re never going to make it.” It was some guy I was dating. I had the last laugh.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 February 2023 source ↗

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