When I am performing, and when my kids make musical mayhem.
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View all 577 →The births of my kids and my wedding spring to mind.
The summer of 1997. My husband, who is an American, gave up everything to come and live with me in Edinburgh when we were students, and we were so skint but we had so much fun.
When I was just singing with my brothers in our house. I was hoping I could become a success to give my mother and my father a better way of living.
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View profile →The world doesn’t consist of bad and good people; it consists of people seeing things in a different way.
Exultation, fear, quiet comfort and even hate.
As a nice guy, but I’m not sure that is going to happen.
Rock climbing in Oslo. During abseiling, I hadn’t tied a knot at the end of the rope and almost slid out. I saw the end of the rope at the last second, so I stopped abseiling.
I worked on a trawler and I was seasick the whole time.
I wanted to play for Tottenham.
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