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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
That you get out of life what you put in. When you grow up on a farm you literally reap what you sow.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 January 2026 source ↗
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Oliver Sacks
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And now, weak, short of breath, my once-firm muscles melted away by cancer, I find my thoughts, increasingly, not on the supernatural or spiritual, but on what is meant by living a good and worthwhile life — achieving a sense of peace within oneself. I find my thoughts drifting to the Sabbath, the day of rest, the seventh day of the week, and perhaps the seventh day of one’s life as well, when one can feel that one’s work is done, and one may, in good conscience, rest.
Rose Ayling-Ellis
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You have to ride the wave and never wait for it to be calm, because it never will be.
Everything’s temporary, and how to make aioli.
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More sleep – my children do not sleep.
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Good memories. When I’m gone, I want them to feel that they were always my No 1 priority.
Getting to the end and thinking that I haven’t laughed enough.
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