On my wedding day.
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View all 577 →The early family skiing holidays – before I’d broken an ankle and Gerald had torn a ligament – were just wonderful.
I've often reached the dizzying heights of ecstasy holding a pint of frothy seasonal ale in Fagan's pub, chatting away with Tom the landlord.
The births of my kids and my wedding spring to mind.
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View profile →My wedding. It was at Skibo Castle long before Madonna or any of those people went there.
If war stopped.
Losing my family in some way.
To John, a really close friend who died last year. I'd love to see him one more time and say, 'Look, I'm sorry I wasn't around enough during your life.'
I was on a plane in India and I thought it was going to crash. It was an old, rickety thing. It was pre-children - I wouldn't do it now.
As an honest man.
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