My parents, for still being in love after 40 years.
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View all 407 →My father, because he's a positive man with an enormous amount of compassion. My mother passed away four days ago.
Alan Bennett, because he has been such a huge influence on me.
Anyone who is a carer.
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On stage at the Brixton Academy on the third night of the residency I did there. I walked out and could not stop crying, some sort of mad relief that it’s all paid off and it’s all been worth it.
I am consistently disappointed in the music industry. Every time someone says that I’m underrated, that feels extremely disappointing because I’ve done my end of the bargain.
High self-esteem.
I had some gynaecological issues that were very sudden, about 18 months ago, and felt that I might be dying. I wasn’t but it was quite serious.
I never finished The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir.
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