I had a bad heart attack 20 years ago: I think I slid off the mortal coil for about 30 seconds.
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View all 210 →How many times I could have died before now, and in how many different ways. And yet I came close only once: a speeding sedan ran a red light, hit three other vehicles, and jack-knifed into my rear wheel split second after I’d stepped out of my parked car. A bystander described the scene to me later. “You were a millimetre away from losing your legs,” he said.
A trip to a Macedonian refugee camp that I switched out of, to go at a later date. Those who took my place were killed in a horrific car accident.
When the media, en masse, reported my imminent demise.
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Called me the N-word.
After losing my mum still managing to finish drama school, because that was really difficult. I lost her in the first year.
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