Not feeling old but everyone treating you that way.
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What single thing would improve the quality of your life?
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View all 61 →Not being able to fend for myself and being a burden to others.
I’m actually looking forward to getting older.
Nothing. I love getting old – I love the freedom it allows you.
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My parents, because I rather slipped from their standards on more than one occasion. And when they got older, I wish I’d been kinder and more tolerant with them.
Removal of fear and anxiety.
Not being able to work.
Fifty per cent of the books on my shelf, so much so that I gave them away.
Insurance – it’s such a scam.
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