I was in a car crash when I was 16, and I have a little scar on my face from smashing the passenger window with my head. If the car had rolled, I would have been dead.
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A walk-on part for my mum in Les Misérables. It was in a charity auction. She always dreamed of being in a West End show.
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Getting an A for my English A-level. I’m dyslexic; it was never detected and I was written off as scatty and lazy. This proved everyone wrong, including me.
Teachers who recognise that each child is different.
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