Disneyland x a million.
What happens when we die?
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What is the most important lesson life has taught you?
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Aside from a property, what is the most expensive thing you have bought?
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Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
A recurring late-stage question in The Guardian Q&A, with materially different answers on publisher-hosted pages.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
We don’t die. We change realms. Life is eternal. Living is not. Live while you are alive.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 July 2026 source ↗
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Nothing at all.
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Not being there for my daughter.
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