Happiness is the target one only has to aim at in order to miss.
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View all 577 →Now. When I see my two children enjoying each other's company.
Well, I’m happiest on Martha’s Vineyard, between July 1 and Labor Day, riding my tricycle with Larry Bobo every afternoon and fishing with Buddy Vanderhoop. But I was happiest from my childhood through high school in Piedmont, West Virginia; it was magical. I was sorry when it was time to go off to college.
My college years, when everything was possible and I felt physically invulnerable.
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