What is the most important lesson life has taught you?

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Recorded Alan Cumming said elsewhere, not written here
Biggest lesson; Treat people respectfully. There's a sort of vogue, and there has been for decades now, that the director is god and the director is all knowing.

John Gaspard, Interview, Fast, Cheap Film Books & More, 18 March 2026 source ↗

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Nothing’s guaranteed and things change in an instant, and to get used to that and stay in the moment.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 16 December 2023 source ↗
Kate Bowler Historian of American Christianity; professor at Duke Divinity School
But cancer has also ushered in new ways of being alive. Even when I am this distant from Canadian family and friends, everything feels as if it is painted in bright colors. In my vulnerability, I am seeing my world without the Instagrammed filter of breezy certainties and perfectible moments. I can’t help noticing the brittleness of the walls that keep most people fed, sheltered and whole. I find myself returning to the same thoughts again and again: Life is so beautiful. Life is so hard.
Recorded The New York Times, Sunday Review, 13 February 2016 source ↗

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Question In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to? Daily life
Well, you have to learn to say no. Certain times you have to think, all right, line in the sand. It’s a gut thing. There’s no rhyme or reason to it. I’m going to do this Beckett Play in London with Daniel Radcliffe. He said this really interesting thing about how he feels that he’s lucky enough that when he chooses a part, that he only does something that he thinks he can bring something to. I think that’s really good, if you have that choice.
Recorded Catherine Cohen, Interview Magazine, 10 July 2019 source ↗

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