The more you face shame and stare it in the eyes and talk about it, the less potent it is.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 March 2026 source ↗
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The more you face shame and stare it in the eyes and talk about it, the less potent it is.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 March 2026 source ↗
I remember the moment when my overwhelming uneasiness yielded. Seven words from Samuel Beckett, a writer I’ve not even read that well, learned long ago as an undergraduate, began to repeat in my head, and the seemingly impassable sea of uncertainty parted: “I can’t go on. I’ll go on.” I took a step forward, repeating the phrase over and over: “I can’t go on. I’ll go on.” And then, at some point, I was through.
To know thyself, as Shakespeare said.
I'm convinced that about half of what separates the successful entrepreneurs from the non-successful ones is pure perseverance. It is so hard. You put so much of your life into this thing. There are such rough moments in time that I think most people give up. I don't blame them. Its really tough and it consumes your life.
To stand up tall and aim for what you want.
I assumed that once I reached some level of achievement, I would feel fixed.
Impatience. I’m not very good at waiting around or dealing with things that aren’t moving at a pace that I want them to.
On radio, I once said “anal” instead of “angel”.
Eager to learn.
Picking myself back up after very tricky times and trying again.
An air steward, because I loved airports. I wrote a letter to British Airways when I was seven and I’ve got the reply in the loft, which says, “You’re a bit young at seven but do stay in touch.” I was that kind of kid who was eager to start the ball rolling.
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