Protect the time and space in which you write. Keep everybody away from it, even the people who are most important to you.
In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to?
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What advice would you give your twenty-year-old self, and what should they ignore?
Time & hindsight
Don’t read your reviews. […] Don’t write reviews. (Your judgment’s always tainted.) […] Don’t write letters to the editor. (No one cares.)
The Guardian Review, 20 February 2010 source ↗
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United States professional tennis player, 1995–2022
But these days, if I have to choose between building my tennis résumé and building my family, I choose the latter.
Derek Sivers
Founder of CD Baby; author of Anything You Want
When deciding whether to do something, if you feel anything less than “Wow! That would be amazing! Absolutely! Hell yeah!” — then say no.
Peter Doherty
Veterinary surgeon and immunologist; Nobel laureate in Physiology or Medicine, 1996
On returning to Brisbane, I realised fairly quickly that I am an experimentalist at heart. A career as a diagnostic virologist was not for me!
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Laureate-written autobiography for Les Prix Nobel, Nobel Prize Outreach, 1 December 1996
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