I’m so tempted to answer serial killer.
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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Catastrophising.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 May 2022 source ↗
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Audra McDonald
Singer and actor
If hoarding and procrastination were Olympic sports, I’d have at least 70 gold medals.
When I’m feeling lazy and I sleep in too much.
Being judgmental.
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A few years ago in Vermont, when I eloped with Trish to have a civil partnership ceremony.
Realising that if they were drowning, you’d try to save them.
A little girl called Pat. We were nine-year-olds together and all the class made her life a misery. I knew she wanted to be my friend and I would only be friends with her if nobody else was around. I feel dreadful about that.
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