The US election showed me that I had trapped myself in wishful thinking.

I didn’t think anything actually [before],” he nods. “And now I ask many questions. Because I don’t know what I will do in such a situation.

Retirement – I thought it was a bad idea.

This morning I decided I am not going to take a job that I’ve been offered.

In South Africa I washed cars, I danced in parking lots and shopping malls, and was a children’s entertainer.

As someone who cared boldly about people, stood firmly for what he believed in and lifted others when they needed help.

Lack of empathy and compassion.

Building my mum her dream home.

My default will always be to go for the worst-case scenario and that is something that I am unlearning.

I’ll never amount to anything. Who? He was my rival at dance school. It hurt and is something that I’ve always had in the back of my head to defy.