The age. I would like to be 30 years old now.
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What keeps you awake at night?
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What most recently made you cry?
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What is your greatest fear?
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Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?
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What is your idea of perfect happiness?
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Which living person do you most admire, and why?
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Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
Verbatim recurring item in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire; two publisher-hosted respondent pages establish institutional recurrence.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
I’ve constantly been changing myself my whole life. I am what you would call “a piece of work” in progress.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 3 April 2020 source ↗
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My dyslexia. Or my inability to learn another language.
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I’d like to have a more generous, less anxious mind.
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At a function for the True Colors Fund, where formerly homeless gay and transgender kids were telling their stories. It was heartbreaking.
A world where greed rules.
I cut people off a lot when I talk. It’s a terrible habit.
Long walks with my husband. Being with my family. Making music, and writing when songs just fall together. And maybe a cannoli. Just one.
Aside from my mom, my husband, and my mother-in-law, Gloria Steinem, Dorothy Pitman Hughes, and RBG.
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