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For a bad week. What people do when they cannot think straight, what they carried out of the worst thing that happened to them, and what turned out later to have been the beginning of something.

25 people · 152 answers

When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do?

Katie Taylor

Irish professional boxer; Olympic champion 2012

Recorded · RTÉ · 2025

There are days when I wake up and don't want to move, but you must show up!
Mohamed ElBaradei

Director General of the International Atomic Energy Agency, 1997-2009; Nobel Peace Prize 2005

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2006

First of all, you learn to manage stress. You learn to live with stress. I mean, stress is there all the time. There’s no question about it. It’s in the morning. It’s at night.
Simone Biles

United States artistic gymnast

Recorded · Rev · 2021

Yes. Today has been really stressful. We had a workout this morning. It went okay. And then just that five and a half hour wait or something. I was just shaking, could barely nap.
Brian Eno

Composer, record producer and visual artist

Recorded · Telekom Electronic Beats · 2011

My favorite method is stopping everything for a moment. It’s amazing how difficult I find it these days to simply sit quietly.
Václav Havel

President of Czechoslovakia 1989–1992; President of the Czech Republic 1993–2003; playwright and dissident

Recorded · Václav Havel Library Foundation (havelcenter.org) · 1986

The kind of hope I often think about (especially in situations that are particularly hopeless, such as prison) I understand above all as a state of mind, not a state of the world.
Margaret Atwood

Novelist, poet and critic

Recorded · The Guardian · 2010

Don’t sit down in the middle of the woods. If you’re lost in the plot or blocked, retrace your steps to where you went wrong. Then take the other road. And/or change the person.

How has a setback or failure set you up for later success?

Frederick W. Smith

Founder and long-serving chairman of FedEx Corporation

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 1998

I was a student at Yale and wrote a paper about the computerized society that was on the horizon. ... Then I sort of let that lie. I didn’t get a particularly good grade on it, as I recall.
Warren Buffett

Chairman and chief executive of Berkshire Hathaway, 1970–2025

Recorded · Berkshire Hathaway Inc. · 1990

My first mistake, of course, was in buying control of Berkshire. Though I knew its business - textile manufacturing - to be unpromising, I was enticed to buy because the price looked cheap.
Mario Molina

Atmospheric chemist; Nobel laureate in Chemistry, 1995

Recorded · Nobel Prize Outreach · 2007

At first the research did not seem to be particularly interesting – I carried out a systematic search for processes that might destroy the CFCs in the lower atmosphere, but nothing appeared…
Theodore Roosevelt

26th President of the United States, 1901–1909; Governor of New York 1899–1900; Assistant Secretary of the Navy 1897–1898

Recorded · The American Presidency Project, University of California Santa Barbara · 1910

It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.
Wendy Kopp

Founder of Teach For America; chief executive of Teach For All

Recorded · American Academy of Achievement · 2013

I applied to one firm in every sector. This was the most half-hearted job search.
Joan Didion

American writer

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2005

Yeah. It’s a grandiose reaction. You are claiming you could really control this, but you failed.

What is the hardest thing that has happened to you, and what did you carry out of it?

Malala Yousafzai

Education campaigner; co-founder of the Malala Fund; United Nations Messenger of Peace

Recorded · The Nobel Foundation · 2014

I had two options. One was to remain silent and wait to be killed. And the second was to speak up and then be killed. I chose the second one. I decided to speak up.
Nina Riggs

Poet and essayist

Recorded · Text Publishing · 2017

Downstairs, the boys gaze at a screen on the old futon in the playroom. We will figure out what to do about them soon enough.
Rita Levi-Montalcini

Neurobiologist; Nobel laureate in Physiology or Medicine, 1986

Recorded · Nobel Prize Outreach · 1986

The two alternatives left then to us were either to emigrate to the United States, or to pursue some activity that needed neither support nor connection with the outside Aryan world where…
Kate Bowler

Historian of American Christianity; professor at Duke Divinity School

Recorded · The New York Times · 2018

To so many people, I am no longer just myself.
Jenny Diski

Novelist and essayist

Recorded · London Review of Books · 2014

I try but I can’t think of a single aspect of having cancer, start to finish, that isn’t an act in a pantomime in which my participation is guaranteed however I believe I choose to play…
Wole Soyinka

Playwright, poet and novelist; Nobel laureate in Literature, 1986

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2009

Writing became a therapy. First of all, it meant I was reconstructing my own existence. It was also an act of defiance. I wasn’t supposed to write. ...

In the last five years, what new belief, behaviour, or habit has most improved your life?

Akio Toyoda

President of Toyota Motor Corporation, 2009–2023; chairman from 2023

Recorded · Babson College (Babson Thought & Action) · 2019

Even I can't predict what kind of car we will be driving 20 years from now, but my time at Babson taught me to embrace change rather than run from it, and I urge all of you to do the same.
Abby Wambach

United States international footballer, 2001–2015

Recorded · Speakola · 2018

You see, soccer didn't make me who I was. I brought who I was to soccer, and I get to bring who I am wherever I go. And guess what? So do you.
Kazuo Ishiguro

Novelist and screenwriter; Nobel laureate in Literature, 2017

Recorded · The Nobel Foundation (nobelprize.org) · 2017

The reason why so many vivid, undeniably convincing characters in novels, films and plays so often failed to touch me was because these characters didn’t connect to any of the other…
Andrew Ng

Co-founder of Coursera and of Google Brain; founder of DeepLearning.AI

Recorded · DeepLearning.AI · 2020

I just finished reading BJ Fogg's new book, Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything.
David Vélez

Co-founder and chief executive of Nubank

Recorded · Sequoia Capital · 2018

Moving closer to work. I live in São Paulo, Brazil, and I used to spend an hour or more in traffic every day, just sitting in the car getting frustrated and anxious.

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Arnold Schwarzenegger, Barack Obama, Bill Clinton, Charlie Munger, Chris Hoy, Christiane Nüsslein-Volhard, David Vélez, Derek Sivers, Edmund Hillary, George H. W. Bush, Jocelyn Bell Burnell, John Lewis, Malala Yousafzai, Mario Molina, Mellody Hobson, Mohamed ElBaradei, Neil Gaiman, Oliver Sacks, Richard Feynman, Shinya Yamanaka, Simone Biles, Steve Jobs, Tony Judt, Warren Buffett, Winston Churchill

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