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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
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I’m chronically late. It’s magical thinking: I actually believe I can take a shower and get dressed in three minutes, that the train will be pulling into the station the moment I arrive….
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, November 2023 source ↗
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Jerry Lewis
American comedian, actor and filmmaker
No sense of humor.
Al Franken
Senator and comedian
I had to ask people about this, because I couldn’t think of anything, and the consensus seems to be: a general lack of self-awareness.
I’m monstrously judgmental. It’s like talking to the pope.
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View profile →The very idea of perfect happiness. Who wouldn’t be happy about the proposition that happiness can be perfect?
The fact that, until recently, “the end of the world” would have seemed pretentious and evasive, and now seems like the only possible answer.
Forbearance with my chronic tardiness.
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