How would you like to die?

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Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire

A fixed final question in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire, repeated verbatim across respondent pages.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Recorded Sally Field said elsewhere, not written here
When I’m extremely old during a huge family celebration where everyone is playing games and giving pre-written toasts … to me.

Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 10 March 2016 source ↗

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John Lewis U.S. Representative from Georgia, 1987–2020; Chairman of the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee 1963–1966
I don't want to die. I don't think I'm going to die…but we all have to die. Since I do, I hope I live on in the hearts and minds of people.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 6 December 2019 source ↗
George Saunders Short-story writer and novelist
Read incorrectly, that sounds like a threat. No thanks, Vanity Fair !
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 25 January 2023 source ↗
Diana Athill Editor and memoirist
That process depends on what you are dying of. The body can fail in ways that are extremely distressing, slowly and painfully, demanding much stoicism, or it can switch off with little more than a flash of dizziness. In my family we seem to have been uncommonly lucky in that respect. There was the 82-year-old uncle who was at a meet of the Norwich Stag Hounds, enjoying a drink with friends, when crash! And he fell off his horse, dead. There was the cousin in her eighties who fell dead as she was filling a kettle to make tea, and the other cousin, 98, who slipped away so gently that the sister who was holding her hand didn’t realise that she had stopped breathing.
Recorded The Guardian, 23 September 2014 source ↗
Henry Marsh Neurosurgeon and writer
Sufficiently well to see Johnson and Truss and then two or three days later, she’s dead. I thought, that’s fantastic. That’s something to celebrate. That’s a great death.
Recorded Sirin Kale, The Guardian, 5 October 2022 source ↗

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