I wish I always had the right word in the right moment at the right time and not two hours later in my car going home.
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Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
Verbatim recurring item in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire; two publisher-hosted respondent pages establish institutional recurrence.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Balancing my inner and outer life.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 28 September 2022 source ↗
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Hans Zimmer
Film composer
A little more self-confidence wouldn’t hurt.
Malala Yousafzai
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I'm trying to be more organized.
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Dolores Huerta.
As a kid, my summers at camp in the Adirondacks. And as an adult, when I’m onstage.
In my sleep in my 90s, after a great gig.
Arrogance and entitlement.
When I’m self-involved or insensitive to others.
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