I bought a house with someone and realised at the housewarming party that it was a mistake.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 9 May 2026 source ↗
The question
When did you last change your mind about something important?Originally asked
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I bought a house with someone and realised at the housewarming party that it was a mistake.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 9 May 2026 source ↗
I always thought I would be a terrible driver because I’m sort of a wafty person, but it turns out I am very good at staying in between the lines. I passed my test last year.
Retirement – I thought it was a bad idea.
When I now think of how the uncertainty about my own future, and the proximity of death, threw me into torment, careering wildly between hope and despair, I look back in wonder at how little I thought about the effect I had on my own patients after I had spoken to them. I did worry that if my tone of voice was too pessimistic the poor patient might spend what little time they had left feeling deeply depressed, simply waiting to die. So I tried to find a balance between telling them the truth and not depriving them of hope. After a patient died, I only occasionally heard back from the family, so I had little way of knowing whether the way I had spoken to them was appropriate or not.
I woke up this morning thinking maybe I don’t want to be an actor any more, then I had breakfast and I thought: actually, no, I really like being an actor.
A perfect cup of coffee – warm, bittersweet, anxiety-inducing and delicious.
Christmas elf at the Rainforest Cafe.
I’d swap out a few boyfriends.
Doing a compulsory standup routine in my first week of drama school.
Getting to 39 without having a filling in my teeth.
Tenacious, romantic, organised.
Jon Snow, Imogen Poots, Rebecca Lucy Taylor, Esther Freud, Alex Lawther, Henry Marsh
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